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Oedipus

The Second Sex

Oedipus is invoked in Simone de Beauvoir’s analysis of the myths through which patriarchal cultures interpret women, fertility, and the maternal. He does not appear as a fully developed dramatic character: his significance lies in two connected references. One presents his mythic transgression through the image of sowing the furrow in which he was formed; the other challenges a familiar reading of the Oedipus complex by locating its conflict within the developing subject, rather than treating it as simple desire obstructed by outside rules.

Mythic Image and Maternal Nature

In a discussion of agricultural metaphors for sexual generation, Oedipus serves as a pointed example of the furrow imagined as both field and maternal origin. Aeschylus is cited as saying that Oedipus dared to sow the sacred furrow where he was formed. The image joins the act of sowing to the place of one’s own formation, turning the myth into an instance of how classical language can frame reproduction through cultivation and the relation between seed and earth.

The reference belongs to a broader account of gendered symbolism. Patriarchal thought, as de Beauvoir describes it, assigns active creation to the male principle and casts woman as the fertile, receptive ground. Yet the earth is not merely passive in this imagery: it shelters, nourishes, and gives substance to what is planted. Oedipus’s place in the argument is therefore not a biographical episode but a compact expression of the uneasy connection between a person’s origin and the maternal source that cultural myths both depend on and seek to distance themselves from.

The Oedipus Complex as Inner Conflict

De Beauvoir explicitly cautions that the description of the Oedipus complex needs revision. In her account, it should not be explained simply as instinctive desire struggling against social directives. Its central drama is an interior conflict: the child’s attachment to the mother’s breast first signifies attachment to life in its immediate, undivided form, while weaning brings the experience of separation from that whole. As the child becomes more individualized, the former bodily bond is transformed into a relation to an external object.

This account makes the child’s growing autonomy central. The more decisively he assumes himself as a subject, the more difficult the carnal bond that seems to challenge his independence can become. He may withdraw from his mother’s caresses, feel discomfort at her authority or presence, and resist acknowledging her as a bodily person. De Beauvoir presents these reactions as part of a struggle to become separate, not as proof that the child simply wants to possess his mother.

Prohibition, Shame, and the Mother

The taboo surrounding incest is, in this interpretation, not merely an external barrier imposed upon a ready-made desire. De Beauvoir argues that the prohibition takes shape within the individual. Awareness of the mother as a sexual being can recall the child’s own birth, which he repudiates or attempts to transform into a majestic cosmic event. He wants the mother to remain above ordinary possession—as a figure containing nature, rather than a woman who can be treated as a wife or mistress.

Adolescence complicates that separation. As sexuality develops, the mother’s body may disturb the young man because it brings femininity into view; an attraction to a bodily feature may recede when he recognizes the maternal relation. De Beauvoir acknowledges that forbidden desire and disgust can become confused, but rejects the simple explanation that a son naively wants to sleep with his mother and is stopped only by society. In her account, respect for the mother sublimates an earlier refusal to regard her as carnal, helping to reinforce the ideal of the sacred mother.

Significance in the Argument

The Oedipus reference thus connects a classical mythic image to a psychological argument about how the maternal is made both foundational and difficult to acknowledge. The mother represents the origin from which the individual must separate, while cultural ideals recast her as pure and untouchable. De Beauvoir also notes that a young man’s relation to his mother can affect his later relations with wives and mistresses, though not in a mechanically predictable way: sensual desire for the mother may have concerned woman in general, while platonic respect may encourage the expectation that women embody maternal purity.

Oedipus consequently functions less as a protagonist whose fate is narrated than as a hinge between myth and analysis. His image of sowing the furrow where he was formed gives a classical form to the problem of origins; the revised account of the Oedipus complex turns that problem inward, toward separation, subjecthood, and the cultural work of distinguishing the mother from the woman.

Prohibition and the Mother’s Place

De Beauvoir argues that the incest taboo is not simply an outside rule imposed on a desire that already exists. The prohibition takes shape within the individual: the child’s growing sense of self makes the mother’s authority, caresses, and bodily presence difficult to reconcile with autonomy. To recognize her as a carnal person is also to be reminded of one’s own birth, an origin the developing subject may repudiate or elevate into a cosmic event. The mother is thus imagined as containing Nature itself, and is expected to remain beyond ordinary possession—as neither wife nor mistress.

Adolescence makes this separation less straightforward. As sexuality develops, the mother’s body can bring femininity into view, yet an attraction may recede once the young man recognizes that the body belongs to his mother. De Beauvoir allows that temptation and disgust can become confused, but rejects the claim that the son simply wishes to possess his mother until society intervenes. In her account, respect for the mother is instead a sublimation of an earlier refusal to regard her as carnal; it helps establish the ideal of the sacred Mother, an image that gains force through the individual’s own conflict.

Effects Beyond the Mother

De Beauvoir traces the consequences of this inner conflict into the young man’s later relations with women, but she does not present those consequences as automatic. Because every woman is imagined as bearing the general essence of Woman and Mother, a son’s attitude toward his mother may shape what he expects from a wife or mistress. A young man who has sensually desired his mother may have desired woman more generally and need not remain bound to incestuous nostalgia; one whose relation to his mother was tender but platonic may instead expect women to embody maternal purity. The same maternal ideal can therefore inform very different adult attachments.

The Maternal Image and Later Attachments

De Beauvoir connects the psychological account back to a broader cultural pattern: patriarchal symbolism casts man as active creator and woman as fertile ground, even though the earth is also what shelters and nourishes the seed. The maternal source is necessary to life, yet the individual who seeks autonomy may resist acknowledging that dependence. Oedipus’s image of sowing the furrow where he was formed condenses this tension between origin and separation; the Oedipus complex, as De Beauvoir revises it, locates the same tension in the subject’s effort to become distinct from the mother.

The conflict may also shape later relations with women, but De Beauvoir warns against treating its effects as mechanically predictable. Since women are culturally associated with the general figure of Woman and Mother, a young man’s attitude toward his mother can inform what he expects of a wife or mistress. Sensual desire directed toward the mother may, in fact, have concerned woman more generally and need not leave him attached to incestuous nostalgia. Conversely, a tender but platonic relation with his mother may encourage him to expect women to embody maternal purity. The same maternal ideal can thus produce different adult attachments.

Oedipus’s role in the argument is consequently interpretive rather than dramatic. The mythic furrow makes the maternal origin a site of cultural unease; the revised psychological account shows how separation, shame, and the idealization of the mother take shape within the developing subject. Together, these references connect classical imagery to the later meanings assigned to women, while resisting a single, inevitable explanation of how a son’s relation to his mother determines his life.